If success is defined in the eye of the beholder, who are you letting behold your success?

Why Her? confronts the comparison question. Bible teacher and author Nicki Koziarz details the striving of two sisters in the Bible, uncovering six truths we need to hear when trying to measure up leaves you falling behind.

These six truths will help you:
• Stop staring at her success and find satisfaction in yours.
• Find contentment with your life without being complacent in who you are becoming.
• Gain godly wisdom to answer the Why Her? silent question of your soul.

Someone will always be ahead. But that doesn’t mean you’re behind. Because Truth, like always, will set us free. And free women don’t have to measure up to anybody. Not even her.


Why her?

How many times have you asked yourself that question? How many times have you felt like you couldn’t measure up no matter how hard you tried?

We’ve all been there.

Over 6 sessions, uncover truths you need to arm yourself with when combatting comparison by studying the biblical account of Rachel & Leah. Learn to be content without becoming complacent, and discover godly wisdom to quiet the incessant Why Her? question in your head. Develop greater awareness of your insecurities, and learn to stop the lies in their tracks. Because the truth will set you free, and free women don’t have to measure up to anyone. Not even her.


An entry to win a trip to the Lifeway Abundance conference with VIP access (Premium Experience) for Fri-Sat, March 17-18 in Biloxi, MS where Nicki will be speaking. We’ll pay for you and a friend’s continental US travel, hotel, and event tickets! Winner will be notified by Lifeway via email on Monday, February 26th to coordinate travel arrangements.
The first 3 chapters of Why Her? (Digital Download)
Week One of Rachel & Leah Bible Study Guide (Digital Download)
 Week One teaching video of Rachel & Leah Study (Access Link)
• Six Combating Comparison Truths and Memory Verse Lockscreens
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Nicki Koziarz is a wife & mom to three girls plus a handful of barnyard babies. They live just outside of Charlotte, NC. She is an inspirational author, Bible teacher and speaker with Proverbs 31 Ministries. Nicki leads from her own brokenness that somehow God is making meaningful.

Have questions? Please email assistant@nickikoziarz.com.

For press inquiries regarding Why Her?, please contact Jenaye White at jenaye.white@bhpublishinggroup.com.